Practitioner record · Checked 9 Oct 2026
Allan Herem has been in practice 23 years and is licensed in California. Allan lists stress, Anxiety, relationship issues and parenting issues among 31 subjects on the BetterHelp roster.
Everything below is either quoted from Allan's own BetterHelp listing, taken from public licensing records, or written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such. Nothing here is an availability promise, a review, or a rating.
01 · Who Allan works with
Allan lists 5 specialisms and 26 further focus areas. Specialisms are the subjects Allan chose to list first, which is the closest a listing gets to “this is my actual practice”.
02 · In Allan's own words
Reproduced in full and unedited - not summarised, not tightened, not rewritten in a house voice.
As a licensed therapist in California, I bring over two decades of experience supporting individuals through life's complex challenges. My approach is deeply rooted in understanding the unique emotional landscapes of adults navigating personal growth, relationships, and self-discovery.
I specialize in addressing a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and personal development. My practice focuses on helping clients explore self-love, communication challenges, social connections, and life purpose. I'm particularly committed to work with couples and family conflict issues, in helping families grow together and overcome interpersonal obstacles.
My therapeutic style emphasizes compassionate guidance, helping clients work through feelings of isolation, guilt, shame, and personal barriers. I create a supportive environment where individuals can explore their experiences, develop healthier coping strategies, and move towards more fulfilling lives.
I offer a thoughtful, respectful approach that honors each client's individual journey and personal beliefs.
Se habla espanol. I do provide services for those who would rather speak in Spanish as well.
Allan Herem, on the BetterHelp listing · read 9 Oct 2026
03 · What happens next
Allan practises through BetterHelp, so the route in is BetterHelp's. This is that sequence, written by Maker Therapy from the platform's published process - not a description of Allan's own practice, and not a promise about how quickly anything happens.
BetterHelp opens with a set of questions about what you are dealing with, what you want from therapy, and any preferences on the therapist. You are not booking Allan at this point.
BetterHelp matches algorithmically by default, so asking for Allan is a step you have to take. There is a field for requesting a specific therapist during sign-up, and you can switch afterwards from your account. Starting from a link on this page does not by itself assign you to Allan.
You will be offered somebody else rather than put on a waitlist. Worth knowing, because it is easy to assume a match is the person you asked for.
A first session is typically history and orientation: what brought you, what has been tried, what you want to be different. It is also where the questions in the next section belong.
Changing therapist on BetterHelp does not need a reason. A first session that does not click is common and is not a verdict on therapy. That option existing is the main practical difference between a platform and a private practice.
04 · Before you commit
Built from what Allan actually lists, so they are answerable and specific rather than generic. Maker Therapy's, not Allan's - Allan has not seen them and is under no obligation to answer any of them.
“With 23 years in, what has changed most in how you work?”
Long experience is only an advantage if it has been examined. This tends to surface whether it has.
“How do you handle the gap between sessions if something comes up?”
On BetterHelp this varies a great deal by therapist. Better to know the rhythm now than to discover it on a bad week.
05 · Practical details
06 · Provenance
Allan's name, credential, state, subjects, approaches and biography are read from BetterHelp's therapist roster, which Maker Therapy re-reads once a day; this page reflects the reading taken on 9 Oct 2026. The licence number and NPI are cross-checked against public registers.
The plain-English method descriptions, the first-session walkthrough and the questions are written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such wherever they appear.
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