Practitioner record · Checked 10 Oct 2026

Kim Selbert has been in practice 10 years and is licensed in California. Kim lists grief, self esteem and coping with life changes among 17 subjects on the BetterHelp roster.

Everything below is either quoted from Kim's own BetterHelp listing, taken from public licensing records, or written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such. Nothing here is an availability promise, a review, or a rating.

10years in practice
17subjects listed
1approach listed

01 · Who Kim works with

Kim works with grief, self esteem and coping with life changes

Kim lists 12 specialisms and 5 further focus areas. Specialisms are the subjects Kim chose to list first, which is the closest a listing gets to “this is my actual practice”.

Specialisms
  • Grief
  • Self esteem
  • Coping with life changes
  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Family conflicts
  • Intimacy-related issues
  • Sleeping disorders
  • Parenting issues
  • Anger management
  • Career difficulties
  • Depression
Also experienced with
  • Aging and geriatric issues
  • Cancer
  • Isolation / loneliness
  • Life purpose
  • Women's issues

02 · In Kim's own words

What Kim says about the work

Reproduced in full and unedited - not summarised, not tightened, not rewritten in a house voice.

Hello. My name is Kim Selbert and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in California. I have practiced counseling for ten years and have expertise in the following areas: Coping with Grief and Loss, Cancer, Life Purpose, Pregnancy & Childbirth and Women's Issues. I primarily use a Client-Centered approach and also draw on personal experiences in all of these areas with the clients I work with. I have a broad and diverse background in the helping profession that also includes utilizing laughter as a healing modality.

In addition to my Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology from Lindenwood University, I also obtained a Master's Degree in Occupational Therapy from the University of Southern California. I am also a published author and wrote Childbirth Choices in Mothers' Words, that was published by Mills & Sanderson in 1990.

I believe that the best therapy involves support, empathy and education. The therapeutic relationship is designed to encourage and support change and to enable the client to be able to create a better life with the skills learned through therapy that can be utilized even after therapy ends.

Kim Selbert, on the BetterHelp listing · read 10 Oct 2026

03 · How Kim works

The 1 approach Kim lists, in plain English

These are the clinical methods Kim lists. The descriptions are Maker Therapy's, not Kim's - a general explanation of what each method is, so the list means something before you have spoken to anybody. They are not a claim about how Kim runs a session.

Client-Centred TherapyPerson-centred · Rogerian
The therapist does not steer toward a technique or a diagnosis. They offer sustained, non-judgemental attention and reflect back what they hear, on the premise that people find their own direction when they are genuinely listened to. Often what people mean by “someone who just gets it”.

04 · What happens next

From this page to a first session

Kim practises through BetterHelp, so the route in is BetterHelp's. This is that sequence, written by Maker Therapy from the platform's published process - not a description of Kim's own practice, and not a promise about how quickly anything happens.

  1. A questionnaire, not a booking form

    BetterHelp opens with a set of questions about what you are dealing with, what you want from therapy, and any preferences on the therapist. You are not booking Kim at this point.

  2. Naming Kim specifically

    BetterHelp matches algorithmically by default, so asking for Kim is a step you have to take. There is a field for requesting a specific therapist during sign-up, and you can switch afterwards from your account. Starting from a link on this page does not by itself assign you to Kim.

  3. If the caseload is full

    You will be offered somebody else rather than put on a waitlist. Worth knowing, because it is easy to assume a match is the person you asked for.

  4. The first conversation

    A first session is typically history and orientation: what brought you, what has been tried, what you want to be different. It is also where the questions in the next section belong.

  5. If the fit is wrong

    Changing therapist on BetterHelp does not need a reason. A first session that does not click is common and is not a verdict on therapy. That option existing is the main practical difference between a platform and a private practice.

05 · Practical details

Credentials and licensing

Credential
LMFT
Licensed in
California
Licence
CA LMFT 17090
Licence number
17090
Licence expires
31 Oct 2027
NPI
1386234490
Years in practice
10
Gender
Female
Languages
English
International clients
Not accepted
Listed since
15 May 2026

06 · Provenance

Where every line on this page came from

Kim's name, credential, state, subjects, approaches and biography are read from BetterHelp's therapist roster, which Maker Therapy re-reads once a day; this page reflects the reading taken on 10 Oct 2026. The licence number and NPI are cross-checked against public registers.

The plain-English method descriptions, the first-session walkthrough and the questions are written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such wherever they appear.

Maker Therapy is not BetterHelp, does not take bookings, and has not met Kim. There are no reviews or ratings on this page because we have no way to verify one. If you start therapy through a link here, we may be paid a commission - it does not change your price and it does not affect who appears here or in what order.

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