Ryan Schaffer has been in practice 7 years and is licensed in Connecticut. Ryan lists addictions, trauma and abuse and intimacy-related issues among 46 subjects on the BetterHelp roster.
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BetterHelp listing, taken from public licensing records, or written by
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7years in practice
46subjects listed
01 · Who Ryan works with
Ryan works with addictions, trauma and abuse and intimacy-related issues
Ryan lists 5 specialisms and 41 further focus areas. Specialisms are the subjects Ryan chose to list first, which is the closest a listing
gets to “this is my actual practice”.
Specialisms
Addictions
Trauma and abuse
Intimacy-related issues
Career difficulties
Coaching
Also experienced with
Abandonment
Antisocial personality
Attachment issues
Avoidant personality
Body image
Codependency
Commitment issues
Control issues
Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
Dependent personality
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
Dissociation
Drug and alcohol addiction
Eating and food-related issues
Emptiness
Family of origin issues
Family problems
Fatherhood issues
Fertility issues
Forgiveness
Guilt and shame
Impulsivity
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Jealousy
Life purpose
Men's issues
Mood disorders
Multicultural concerns
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Post-traumatic stress
Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Self-harm
Self-love
Sex addiction
Sexual dysfunction
Sexuality
Social anxiety and phobia
Young adult issues
02 · In Ryan's own words
What Ryan says about the work
Reproduced in full and unedited - not summarised, not tightened, not rewritten in a house voice.
I am licensed in Connecticut with 7 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with coping with addictions, trauma, abuse, intimacy related issues, career difficulties, & executive coaching. I also have experience working with professional coaching. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. I use a 6 month transformation schedule. I choose to bring the masculine and feminine together. The body, mind, and soul are all important to lead a fulfilling life. The truth sets us free. If you experience an internal truth of wanting to uncover the deeper meaning of life, I will support your journey on recognizing and owning your personal strengths.
Ryan Schaffer, on the BetterHelp listing · read 7 Oct 2026
03 · What happens next
From this page to a first session
Ryan practises through BetterHelp, so the route in is BetterHelp's. This is that sequence,
written by Maker Therapy from the platform's published process - not a description of
Ryan's own practice, and not a promise about how quickly anything happens.
A questionnaire, not a booking form
BetterHelp opens with a set of questions about what you are dealing with, what you want from
therapy, and any preferences on the therapist. You are not booking Ryan at this point.
Naming Ryan specifically
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take. There is a field for requesting a specific therapist during sign-up, and you can switch
afterwards from your account. Starting from a link on this page does not by itself assign you to
Ryan.
If the caseload is full
You will be offered somebody else rather than put on a waitlist. Worth knowing, because it is
easy to assume a match is the person you asked for.
The first conversation
A first session is typically history and orientation: what brought you, what has been tried,
what you want to be different. It is also where the questions in the next section belong.
If the fit is wrong
Changing therapist on BetterHelp does not need a reason. A first session that does not click is
common and is not a verdict on therapy. That option existing is the main practical difference
between a platform and a private practice.
04 · Before you commit
2 questions worth asking Ryan
Built from what Ryan actually lists, so they are answerable and specific rather than generic.
Maker Therapy's, not Ryan's - Ryan has not seen them and is under no obligation to answer
any of them.
“How do you decide when someone is ready to work on a traumatic memory itself?”
Pacing is the biggest safety question in trauma work. A clear, unhurried answer here matters more than any credential.
“How do you handle the gap between sessions if something comes up?”
On BetterHelp this varies a great deal by therapist. Better to know the rhythm now than to discover it on a bad week.
05 · Practical details
Credentials and licensing
Credential
LCSW
Licensed in
Connecticut
Licence
CT LCSW 11605
Licence number
11605
Licence expires
31 Oct 2026
NPI
1073092466
Years in practice
7
Gender
Male
Languages
English
International clients
Accepted
Listed since
15 May 2026
06 · Provenance
Where every line on this page came from
Ryan's name, credential, state, subjects, approaches and biography
are read from BetterHelp's therapist roster, which Maker Therapy re-reads once a day; this page reflects the reading taken on 7 Oct 2026. The licence number and NPI are cross-checked against public registers.
The plain-English method descriptions, the first-session walkthrough and the questions are
written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such wherever they appear.
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