Shemeram 'Shari' Lachin has been in practice 7 years and is licensed in California. Shemeram lists stress, Anxiety, LGBT and trauma and abuse among 44 subjects on the BetterHelp roster.
Everything below is either quoted from Shemeram's own
BetterHelp listing, taken from public licensing records, or written by
Maker Therapy and labelled as such. Nothing here is an availability promise, a review, or a
rating.
7years in practice
44subjects listed
01 · Who Shemeram works with
Shemeram works with stress, Anxiety, LGBT and trauma and abuse
Shemeram lists 5 specialisms and 39 further focus areas. Specialisms are the subjects Shemeram chose to list first, which is the closest a listing
gets to “this is my actual practice”.
Specialisms
Stress, Anxiety
LGBT
Trauma and abuse
Self esteem
Depression
Also experienced with
Abandonment
Adoption and foster care
Antisocial personality
Attachment issues
Codependency
Commitment issues
Communication problems
Dependent personality
Dissociation
Divorce and separation
Drug and alcohol addiction
Emptiness
Family of origin issues
Family problems
First responder issues
Forgiveness
Gender dysphoria
HIV / AIDS
Immigration issues
Impulsivity
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Jealousy
Life purpose
Midlife crisis
Mood disorders
Multicultural concerns
Paranoia
Personality disorders
Prejudice and discrimination
Self-harm
Self-love
Sexual assault and abuse
Sexuality
Social anxiety and phobia
Somatization
Women's issues
Workplace issues
Young adult issues
02 · In Shemeram's own words
What Shemeram says about the work
Reproduced in full and unedited - not summarised, not tightened, not rewritten in a house voice.
Hi, I'm Shari and as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I believe that prioritizing your mental health is one of the greatest investments you can make in yourself. With over 7 years of experience, I provide an affirming, empowering, and solution-oriented approach tailored to your unique needs. My goal is to create a warm, nonjudgmental space where you feel supported as we work together to build on your strengths, overcome challenges, and create solutions for meaningful, lasting change.
Shemeram 'Shari' Lachin, on the BetterHelp listing · read 9 Oct 2026
03 · What happens next
From this page to a first session
Shemeram practises through BetterHelp, so the route in is BetterHelp's. This is that sequence,
written by Maker Therapy from the platform's published process - not a description of
Shemeram's own practice, and not a promise about how quickly anything happens.
A questionnaire, not a booking form
BetterHelp opens with a set of questions about what you are dealing with, what you want from
therapy, and any preferences on the therapist. You are not booking Shemeram at this point.
Naming Shemeram specifically
BetterHelp matches algorithmically by default, so asking for Shemeram is a step you have to
take. There is a field for requesting a specific therapist during sign-up, and you can switch
afterwards from your account. Starting from a link on this page does not by itself assign you to
Shemeram.
If the caseload is full
You will be offered somebody else rather than put on a waitlist. Worth knowing, because it is
easy to assume a match is the person you asked for.
The first conversation
A first session is typically history and orientation: what brought you, what has been tried,
what you want to be different. It is also where the questions in the next section belong.
If the fit is wrong
Changing therapist on BetterHelp does not need a reason. A first session that does not click is
common and is not a verdict on therapy. That option existing is the main practical difference
between a platform and a private practice.
04 · Before you commit
2 questions worth asking Shemeram
Built from what Shemeram actually lists, so they are answerable and specific rather than generic.
Maker Therapy's, not Shemeram's - Shemeram has not seen them and is under no obligation to answer
any of them.
“How do you decide when someone is ready to work on a traumatic memory itself?”
Pacing is the biggest safety question in trauma work. A clear, unhurried answer here matters more than any credential.
“How do you handle the gap between sessions if something comes up?”
On BetterHelp this varies a great deal by therapist. Better to know the rhythm now than to discover it on a bad week.
05 · Practical details
Credentials and licensing
Credential
LCSW
Licensed in
California
Licence
CA LCSW 85569, NM LCSW SWB-2026-1063
Licence number
85569
Licence expires
30 Sep 2028
NPI
1255883633
Years in practice
7
Gender
Female
Languages
English
International clients
Accepted
Listed since
24 Jul 2026
06 · Provenance
Where every line on this page came from
Shemeram's name, credential, state, subjects, approaches and biography
are read from BetterHelp's therapist roster, which Maker Therapy re-reads once a day; this page reflects the reading taken on 9 Oct 2026. The licence number and NPI are cross-checked against public registers.
The plain-English method descriptions, the first-session walkthrough and the questions are
written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such wherever they appear.
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