Susan “Sue”(nickname) Wildermann has been in practice 18 years and is licensed in New Jersey. Susan lists family conflicts, trauma and abuse and parenting issues among 42 subjects on the BetterHelp roster.
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BetterHelp listing, taken from public licensing records, or written by
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18years in practice
42subjects listed
6approaches listed
01 · Who Susan works with
Susan works with family conflicts, trauma and abuse and parenting issues
Susan lists 15 specialisms and 27 further focus areas. Specialisms are the subjects Susan chose to list first, which is the closest a listing
gets to “this is my actual practice”.
Specialisms
Family conflicts
Trauma and abuse
Parenting issues
Depression
ADHD
Stress, Anxiety
LGBT
Relationship issues
Grief
Intimacy-related issues
Anger management
Self esteem
Career difficulties
Bipolar disorder
Coping with life changes
Also experienced with
Abandonment
Adoption and foster care
Aging and geriatric issues
Autism and Asperger Syndrome
Blended family issues
Caregiver issues and stress
Communication problems
Control issues
Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
Divorce and separation
Domestic violence
Family problems
Fatherhood issues
Forgiveness
Guilt and shame
Impulsivity
Multicultural concerns
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Phobias
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Self-harm
Sexual assault and abuse
Social anxiety and phobia
Women's issues
Young adult issues
02 · In Susan's own words
What Susan says about the work
Reproduced in full and unedited - not summarised, not tightened, not rewritten in a house voice.
My name is Sue Wildermann. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in NJ. I have a Masters in the Behavioral Sciences and a Professional Diploma in Marriage and Family Therapy. I am eclectic in my style and work diligently to provide you with the best approach. I view our work together as a team effort. I have extensive experience working with individuals, couples, parents and grandparents, helping them come to terms and changing their approach to better help themselves and their families. I help people to address anxiety, compulsiveness, depression, work related issues, trauma and domestic violence (physical, verbal and sexual assault victims), and to parent effectively. I have helped individuals work on their family issues to improve their family and partner relationships. I worked with individuals who experienced trauma after Hurricane Sandy. I am easy to talk to and non judgmental. I believe you are the expert in your life and I will help you to discover the you, you wish to be. I truly enjoy working with people to help them reach their goals through empowerment and strength.
Susan “Sue”(nickname) Wildermann , on the BetterHelp listing · read 9 Oct 2026
03 · How Susan works
The 6 approaches Susan lists, in plain English
These are the clinical methods Susan lists. The descriptions are Maker Therapy's, not
Susan's - a general explanation of what each method is, so the list means something before
you have spoken to anybody. They are not a claim about how Susan runs a session.
Client-Centred TherapyPerson-centred · Rogerian
The therapist does not steer toward a technique or a diagnosis. They offer sustained, non-judgemental attention and reflect back what they hear, on the premise that people find their own direction when they are genuinely listened to. Often what people mean by “someone who just gets it”.
Cognitive Behavioural TherapyCBT
Structured, present-focused work on the loop between what you think, how you feel and what you then do. Usually means noticing a thought pattern in the room, testing it against evidence, and practising something different between sessions. Among the most heavily researched talking therapies for depression and anxiety.
Emotionally Focused TherapyEFT
Built for couples and rooted in attachment: the recurring argument is treated as a cycle two people are stuck in rather than as one person's fault. Sessions work to interrupt the cycle and get to what each person is actually asking for underneath it.
Narrative Therapy
Treats the story you tell about your life as something that can be examined and retold rather than as the plain facts. Separates the person from the problem - “the anxiety” rather than “your anxiety” - to make room for the parts the current story leaves out.
Solution-Focused Brief TherapySFBT
Starts from where you want to end up rather than from how you got here. Sessions look for the times the problem is already smaller and work out what is different about those, so the number of sessions tends to be short and the work concrete.
Trauma-Focused TherapyTF-CBT · trauma-informed
CBT adapted for people whose difficulty is rooted in a frightening or overwhelming event. Pacing is the point: safety and stabilisation come first, the memory itself is approached gradually and only when you are ready, and the aim is that recalling it stops hijacking the present.
04 · What happens next
From this page to a first session
Susan practises through BetterHelp, so the route in is BetterHelp's. This is that sequence,
written by Maker Therapy from the platform's published process - not a description of
Susan's own practice, and not a promise about how quickly anything happens.
A questionnaire, not a booking form
BetterHelp opens with a set of questions about what you are dealing with, what you want from
therapy, and any preferences on the therapist. You are not booking Susan at this point.
Naming Susan specifically
BetterHelp matches algorithmically by default, so asking for Susan is a step you have to
take. There is a field for requesting a specific therapist during sign-up, and you can switch
afterwards from your account. Starting from a link on this page does not by itself assign you to
Susan.
If the caseload is full
You will be offered somebody else rather than put on a waitlist. Worth knowing, because it is
easy to assume a match is the person you asked for.
The first conversation
A first session is typically history and orientation: what brought you, what has been tried,
what you want to be different. It is also where the questions in the next section belong.
If the fit is wrong
Changing therapist on BetterHelp does not need a reason. A first session that does not click is
common and is not a verdict on therapy. That option existing is the main practical difference
between a platform and a private practice.
05 · Before you commit
4 questions worth asking Susan
Built from what Susan actually lists, so they are answerable and specific rather than generic.
Maker Therapy's, not Susan's - Susan has not seen them and is under no obligation to answer
any of them.
“You list both Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Client-Centred Therapy. Which do you lean on with someone like me?”
Those two point in different directions - one structured and led by the therapist, the other led by you. The answer tells you what the sessions will actually feel like.
“How do you decide when someone is ready to work on a traumatic memory itself?”
Pacing is the biggest safety question in trauma work. A clear, unhurried answer here matters more than any credential.
“With 18 years in, what has changed most in how you work?”
Long experience is only an advantage if it has been examined. This tends to surface whether it has.
“How do you handle the gap between sessions if something comes up?”
On BetterHelp this varies a great deal by therapist. Better to know the rhythm now than to discover it on a bad week.
06 · Practical details
Credentials and licensing
Credential
LPC
Licensed in
New Jersey
Licence
NJ LPC 37PC00357000
Licence number
37PC00357000
Licence expires
30 Nov 2026
NPI
1083890123
Years in practice
18
Gender
Female
Languages
English
International clients
Not accepted
Listed since
15 May 2026
07 · Provenance
Where every line on this page came from
Susan's name, credential, state, subjects, approaches and biography
are read from BetterHelp's therapist roster, which Maker Therapy re-reads once a day; this page reflects the reading taken on 9 Oct 2026. The licence number and NPI are cross-checked against public registers.
The plain-English method descriptions, the first-session walkthrough and the questions are
written by Maker Therapy and labelled as such wherever they appear.
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